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:iconkziira:Kziira posted a status
Um. Does anybody know how to fix a one-sided friendship? I mean, it's not completely one-sided but it sure is feeling like it.

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LizLuvsCupcakes Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2017
Hm... try writing them a note and, in the least aggressive way possible, tell them what's wrong.
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Kziira Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Oh man, do I wish I had the bravery to do so. I'm scared I'll hurt them, or they'll take it the completely wrong way & become defensive (they don't seem to take well to criticism). : (
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LizLuvsCupcakes Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2017
I know. I had the same problem with a friend awhile back, and telling them what's wrong can be terrifying. But the best way to start is to send them a note saying, "look, I know you don't like being told what you're doing wrong, but can I please tell you some things that have been bothering me?" And if they say you can, you're in. If not, when they ask to roleplay in the future, just tell them that you don't really want to because of some things they do.

and also, try not to have a heart attack. This can be scary as fuck.
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Kziira Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Hmm... I suppose that's true. Maybe I'll give that a shot. Not right now, but I will give it a shot later? But thank you so much. This actually sounds like a very good way to handle it. 

I promise I wont, haha. I mean the most I'll have is probably an anxiety attack n' if that happens I'll just be sure to take a break & try to do things that calm me down.
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LizLuvsCupcakes Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2017
Hey, no use giving it a shot before you're ready. And when you are, I guarantee I'll be here for you to talk to if you're feeling anything.

but cat videos wouldnt hurt either. 
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